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Key to a good marriage? Share housework
婚姻幸福秘诀:一起做家务!
    2007-07-04 17:32:28     CRIENGLISH.com

Key to a good marriage? Share housework

 

婚姻幸福秘诀:一起做家务!

The percentage of Americans who consider children "very important" to a successful marriage has dropped sharply since 1990, and more now cite the sharing of household chores as pivotal(1), according to a sweeping(2) new survey.

The Pew Research Center survey on marriage and parenting found that children had fallen to eighth out of nine on a list of factors that people associate with successful marriages — well behind "sharing household chores," "good housing," "adequate(3) income," a "happy sexual relationship" and "faithfulness."

In a 1990 World Values Survey, children ranked third in importance among the same items, with 65 percent saying children were very important to a good marriage. Just 41 percent said so in the new Pew survey.

Chore-sharing was cited as very important by 62 percent of respondents, up from 47 percent in 1990.

The survey also found that, by a margin(4) of nearly 3-to-1, Americans say the main purpose of marriage is the "mutual happiness and fulfillment" of adults rather than the "bearing and raising of children."

The survey's findings buttress(5) concerns expressed by numerous scholars and family-policy experts, among them Barbara Dafoe Whitehead of Rutgers University's National Marriage Project.

"The popular culture is increasingly oriented to(6) fulfilling the X-rated(7) fantasies and desires of adults," she wrote in a recent report. "Child-rearing(8) values — sacrifice, stability, dependability, maturity — seem stale(9) and musty(10) by comparison."

Virginia Rutter, a sociology professor at Framingham State College and board member of the Council on Contemporary Families, said the shifting views may be linked in part to America's relative lack of family-friendly workplace policies such as paid leave and subsidized child care.

"If we value families ... we need to change the circumstances they live in," she said, citing the challenges faced by young, two-earner couples as they ponder(11) having children.

The Pew survey was conducted by telephone from mid-February through mid-March among a random, nationwide sample of 2,020 adults. Its margin of error is 3 percentage points.




1. pivotal:关键的

2. sweeping:规模大的,范围广的

3. adequate:充足的、适当的

4. margin:差数

5. buttress:支持

 

最近一项大范围调查显示:1990年之后认为孩子是成功婚姻关键的美国人比例大幅度下降,现在更多人认为一起做家务才是关键。




Pew研究中心启动的此项针对婚姻和家庭的调查发现,在九项成功婚姻关键因素中“孩子”仅仅排在第八位,远远落后于“分担家务”、“舒适的住宅”、“足够的收入”、“和谐的性关系”和“忠诚”。




在1990年世界价值观调查中,“孩子”在同样的九项选择中名列第三,百分之六十五的人认为孩子是婚姻幸福的重要因素。新调查中只有百分之四十一的人这样认为。


百分之六十二的人认为分担家务非常重要,比1990年高出十五个百分点。


调查还发现认为婚姻主要目的是“双方幸福和满足”的人是认为婚姻是“责任和养孩子”的人的三倍。




此调查结果证实了很多学者和家庭专家的顾虑并非多余,其中包括罗格斯大学国家婚姻计划的Barbara Dafoe Whitehead。



她在最近的报告中写道:“目前流行的文化越来越偏向满足成人的幻想和欲望,而教育孩子的那些价值观如牺牲、稳定、可信、成熟相比之下显得陈腐而过时。”




州立弗莱明哈姆学院社会学教授、现代家庭委员会会员Virginia Rutter说人们观念的转变部分上与美国工作缺乏照顾家庭政策有关,例如没有带薪假和育儿津贴。




双方都有工作的年轻夫妇如果想要孩子会面临很多麻烦,因此她说:“如果我们重视家庭的话,应该改变他们生存的环境。”


此项调查在二月中旬至三月中旬间随机电话询问了全国2020个成年人。误差在三个百分点。


 

中国国际广播电台 译

 

6. orient to:适应

7. X-rated:限制级的

8. rear:培养、树立

9. stale:陈腐的

10. musty:发霉的、过时的

11. ponder:沉思、考虑

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