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The Five Love Languages
《爱情的五种语言》
Gary Chapman
加里·查普曼
2006-2-13 14:15:47   
 
 
The Five Love Languages
《爱情的五种语言》
Gary Chapman
加里·查普曼

Synopsis

Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages, believes Dr. Gary Chapman. While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, he identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In a friendly, often humorous style, he unpacks each one.

Some husbands or wives may crave focused attention; another needs regular praise. Gifts are highly important to one spouse, while another sees fixing a leaky faucet, ironing a shirt, or cooking a meal as filling their "love tank." Some partners might find physical touch makes them feel valued: holding hands, giving back rubs, and sexual contact. Chapman illustrates each love language with real-life examples from his counseling practice.

How do you discover your spouse’s – and your own – love language? Chapman’s short questionnaires are one of several ways to find out.

Although some readers may find choosing to love a spouse that they no longer even like –hoping the feelings of affection will follow later– a difficult concept to swallow, Chapman promises that the results will be worth the effort. "Love is a choice," says Chapman. "And either partner can start the process today."

故事梗概

加里·查普曼博士认为,婚姻不幸的原因通常十分简单:我们使用不同的爱情语言。查普曼博士已经做了三十多年的婚姻顾问,他总结出五种爱情语言:赞赏的话语、共同度过的时间、礼品、细心的照顾和身体上的接触。查普曼博士以亲切幽默的方式为你一一讲解。





一些丈夫或妻子渴望时刻被关注;一些则需要常常被赞扬。一方认为礼物至关重要,另一方则觉得修好一个漏气的龙头、烫平一件衬衫或者做一顿好饭更能体现爱意。一些人可能觉得身体接触更能让他们感觉被爱:如牵手、抚摸后背、性接触。查普曼博士将从真实生活中选取事例来辅助读者理解。






如何知道你和你的伴侣使用何种爱情语言呢?查普曼博士的小测验可以帮助你。



如果一些读者认为与旧情人重燃爱火很难接受,查普曼博士向你保证这样做绝对物超所值。“爱情是一种选择,” 查普曼博士说:“妻子或丈夫可以立刻开始改善你们的关系。”

 

Comment

Learn to speak and understand your mate’s love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp!


 


评价

学习和理解爱人所使用爱情语言,你将立刻知道该如何表达爱意和收获爱情。技巧的交流尽在你的掌握!


Introduction of Author

● Name: Gary Chapman

● Nationality: America

● Position: marriage counselor, author,pastor

●Main works:

The Five Love Languages of Teenagers

The Love Languages of God

Loving Solutions

Hope for the Separated

The Otherside of Love

作者简介

○ 姓名:加里·查普曼

○ 国籍:美国

○ 地位:婚姻顾问,作家,牧师

○主要作品:

《青少年爱情的五种语言》

《上帝的爱情语言》

《爱情宝典》

《失恋者的希望》

《爱情的另一面》

 

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